Preacher Knows How To Throw a Party
December 28th is not the best day to celebrate a birthday, but we don't get to choose which day to be born, do we? Anyone who has a birthday in December will tell you, they have experienced the Christmas/birthday gift, the Christmas card with Merry Christmas scratched out and happy birthday written in its place, or perhaps their birthday has been completely forgotten. My wife is one of those people.
One year, when I was a firefighter and working on shift, we had a really busy day with multiple car accidents and I know at least one house fire. At 12:15 that night, which was really 12:15 in the morning of December 29th, I realized that I had not even said happy birthday to my wife. I called, woke her up, and apologized. She was great about it, but I know that it really hurt. Ever since that day, I have really tried to make her birthday a special event each year.
This year was exceptionally great! I started working on the party for Donel in October. I found an awesome private venue called, "
My Special Occasions" and secured one of the greatest DJs I know, Dominick Claus.
We had the option of having a bartender at no extra charge, so the decision was made to inform the guests that it would be a B.Y.O.B. party. We also wanted our children to be able to enjoy the party with us.
One day, while taking a ride with my mother, we were talking about the party and we decided to go to Spec's liquor store and pick up a few bottles. Just some basics for our table in case someone came to the party and didn't have anything to drink. Mostly we got flavored vodkas like root beer float and birthday cake! It was not exactly the normal bar set up.
After literally hours of planning and setting up, the party got started. I placed the liquor from the store and everything else I could find in my house on the bar. When my mother and her husband arrived with some of her friends, she decided that we did not have enough food and also did not have enough liquor. At that point, she handed me her credit card, and told me to go to
Barcenas Mexican Restaurant down the street and order enough food for everyone. She also sent me to the liquor store with a long list of needed bottles of liquor and wine!
Now there is two ways that you can look at this type of situation. I could've been offended that all the hard work that I put in was not good enough for my mother or I could be grateful that she was going to use her resources to make our party that much better. I chose the latter!
Now you know the details, so I want to answer the question in your head that is, "Why would a preacher have an open bar at a party that he is throwing?"
My answer is, "Why not?"
Children were not allowed to drink any alcohol at the party and I believe that the adults have the right to choose for themselves whether they would or would not drink and how much. Even though we had a fully stocked open bar at the party, we did not have any problems with anyone getting drunk and acting the fool at the party.
I later found out that only one person who was at the party drank to much and got belligerent on the way home. Guess who isn't getting an invite next time!
We now have four boxes full of alcohol that we will never drink. As a matter of fact, I am going to load the whole kit and caboodle into the minivan and carry it down to my mother's house, so that she and her friends can enjoy it.
As for me, I had a few drinks at the party, but it really didn't do that much for me. I am beginning to believe that drinking alcohol is really just a waste of time. I think that comes with age.
I can tell you one thing, that Mexican food was absolutely awesome. I ate enchiladas for four days after the party and the food was delicious every time!
So, I have to say thank you to my mother, to Donna and Paul who own "
My Special Occasion," and to DJ Dominick who is truly an international DJ. Also thank you to my friends Alex and Miriam who were there with me helping set up and thank you to wonderful Valerie for bringing the birthday girl to the ball! Lastly, Thank you to all of the wonderful people who love Donel and decided to celebrate her birthday with us!
It was so great to see my wife truly celebrating her birthday in style. There was so much dancing and I know that is what Donel loves to do. Many of her students, who love her dearly, were at the party and on the dance floor celebrating with Donel as they danced to the
THB Dance Fitness routines that Donel created.
Would I or will I have liquor, beer or wine at a future event?
Absolutely!
Keep Calm, Love God and
G.O.Y.A.,
The Fu King Preacher